Post #10: The River of Life

 Post #10: The River of Life

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Context 

 surrender, flow, lettinggo, trust, universe, taoism, wuwei, peace, control, acceptance, spirituality, wisdom, lifejourney, faith, relaxation 

So much of our suffering comes from the exhaustion of swimming upstream. We spend our days trying to micromanage the universe, forcing outcomes that aren't ready to happen, and resisting changes that are inevitable. We grip the oars of our life tightly, believing that if we stop rowing for even a second, disaster will strike. We live under the illusion that we are in control of the river, when in reality, we are barely in control of the boat.

Life has a natural current—a trajectory of growth and evolution that is far more intelligent than our limited egoic plans. When we fight this current, we experience stress, burnout, and frustration. We think we are fighting the world, but we are actually fighting the flow of life itself. We view the unexpected turns of the river as obstacles, rather than necessary bends in the journey toward our destination.

True spiritual maturity is learning to put down the oars. This is not the same as giving up or becoming passive; it is an active state of surrender. It means trusting that the intelligence that grew your body and spins the planets also knows how to guide your life. When you stop struggling against "what is" and start flowing with it, you conserve your energy. You stop trying to force the river to go your way, and instead, you let the river carry you home.